Marriage and Your Chart: When will you Marry?

Did you know that your natal chart can give insight into any area of your life at any given time? Most of the questions that I get are of course, about romance and when it may present itself.

Others just want to cut to the chase and know, “Will I marry? If so, when?” Yes, your chart can show this!

As an astrologer, the first thing I would look at is the condition of your 7th house. The 7th house in astrology rules marriage or bonded relationships.

Setting Boundaries, Necessary In Both Personal And Business Life

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Setting boundaries is necessary in both personal and business relationships. It can be hard to set boundaries but if you don’t, after a while it can take a toll on your own personal happiness.

How many times have you heard someone say they feel as though they are being taken for granted?

This may be a problem you have in your own life. It happens to many people in both their personal and business lives, but there is a solution and you can begin to turn it around by setting boundaries.

This has always been very hard for me to do myself, and the root of it for me is because I don’t like telling people no. While that’s great for those that know this about me, it really has caused me a lot of stress in both the personal and business areas of my life. I was able to make many changes by setting boundaries in my business practices, but am still a work in progress on setting boundaries in my personal life.

Why He “Pulled Away” — And How to Bring Him Back

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We’ve all been there. To hell and back that is.

We’ve all found ourselves caught in the throes of a new romantic connection that seemed so perfect in the beginning and then died out so suddenly that we were left reeling in the aftershocks and wondering what happened?

It usually goes something like this: We meet a man who seems so promising and full of potential in the beginning that we allow ourselves to get caught up in a whirlwind romance, one that has all the markings of a long term relationship.

He comes on like gangbusters, ardently pursuing and letting us know in a multitude of ways that he’s into us.

Soul Mate Separation – Here Is My Story…

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In the fall of 1999, my brother was living with me and nagging me on a daily basis to start dating again. He would say, “Sis, it’s about time that you got back out there again!”

He suggested that I put an ad in the personals to find a man because everyone was doing it, and it was free. He planted a seed in my mind, and after several months of careful thought, I did indeed place an ad in the personals that November. Immediately afterward, I felt like an idiot!

My mother and I composed the ad together, calling for a twenty-four-karat gentleman, not in terms of money, but rather in terms of morals and good family upbringing.

I felt that since times were changing, this endeavor was worth the attempt even though it was not something I was especially comfortable with.

Choosing Life Over Fear

Follow the Path of the Buddha

Did you ever heard the saying…”Nothing to fear, but fear itself!”?

It should be a statement taught to memorize in 1st grade to ensure we do not miss that train…that at times seemingly elusive train named happiness (not same as the streetcar named desire…:).

Contrary to what the title might have sounded like, this is not a religious article.

Psychic Medium ~ Curse or Gift By Quiet Sound

Psychic Medium

I have been blessed in this lifetime to be a Psychic Medium and I have to tell you it has been quite an adventure and a journey. We are all different in how we receive our gifts and in how we are told to use our abilities.

In most cases it’s a beautiful gift given to us by God and to be able to reunite loved ones and to pass messages from the other side and it helps the client to make important decisions about their lives and gives comfort to those that are searching for answers and confirmation that our loved ones are ok and what they are doing and if they wish to communicate.

For me, relaying messages is a very natural and normal occurrence and flows very easily. I’m faced with the client either through phone, live chat, or in person and the information is given to me and then relayed by me and it’s at that time that the urgency to relay is released and that is how I know that either your guides, angels, and loved ones are satisfied with what you need to know for the moment.

It’s a blessing, some clients say to be able to relieve them and to give them hope for their futures and to make them feel better.

Over the years I have had questions from clients wanting to know if it’s ever difficult in relaying messages to people especially if a person doesn’t want to hear a message or if there are times when the messages is not who you think they are for but really for someone else. I know, it sounds very complicated and confusing but the answer to that question is a profound “YES”. It’s at those times when I feel as though this is actually some kind of curse but then in most cases turns into a blessing and a gift.

Changes for the Better: Onward and Upwards!

“Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Make it memorable.” These are the first words in a book I wrote 10 years ago.

Taking a moment out of all the craziness you live every day, to remember this is important, not only to the longevity of your life, but to the quality of life you are living.

And as the new year of 2015 is well underway, I am reminded that I need to practice what I preach, and refresh my memory. The book I wrote is called You, Only Better. I feel a need to do an overhaul and reassessment for 2015. Maybe you do too?

As a psychic an intuitive spiritual counselor, my day is filled with questions and queries, energy and emotions, that are not even mine. It can be difficult to release and let go. And as a mother, partner and your everyday person, life can be crazy and changes required.

Does this Relationship Have a Future?

One of the most common questions I get from clients is about the future of a new relationship.

The beginning of a new relationship can be an exciting time!  We are, of course eager to know how this new relationship will unfold.

Numerous studies show that the success of a relationship depends on certain commonalities we share and our willingness to stay present with the other person.

When we are focused on the future it can steer us away from enjoying the moment. It can often consume us – creating lots of negative thought patterns and worry thoughts.

These thoughts can impact on the present dynamics of a relationship in its formative stages – taking us from really being in the now. New connections can stir up old feelings from our past and relationships can test us in many ways. This is a time for exploring the building stages of a new relationship and really tuning into that person.

Develop your Sixth Sense with a Pendulum

pendulum2I first started developing my sixth sense with a pendulum, I must have been about 14-years old, and I didn’t know what I was doing, but realized that the back and forth swing of the pendulum was mesmerizing and actually put me in “alpha state.”

It helped me clear my mind so I could get the right answer to the yes and no questions I was asking. It took some practice.

So in my opinion, if you are first starting off trying to develop your sixth sense, then the practice of using a pendulum is the way to go. It’s a simple and ordinary little device that helps you communicate with your higher self, so you can access Divine Guidance when you do it.

You don’t need to be “gifted” all you need to do is develop that sixth sense that we all have. And it will open up this sense to where you can become more “psychic” in all aspects of your life and even do readings for others.

One of the reasons you might choose to use a pendulum, is that every time you develop another gift that you can use to communicate with spirit, your overall vibration gets higher.

Meditation for People Who Think They Can’t

Is there meditation for people who think they can’t do it?

“I know I should meditate. I keep thinking about it but every time I try I get distracted and I just never end up doing it routinely.”

In recent years, meditation is no longer thought of as only for Buddhist Adherents, monks or seekers; it  and has been adopted by people of all ages,  faiths, ethnicities and backgrounds as part of their spiritual and wellness routine.    Meditation has gone from ritual to routine in homes, meditation centers, Churches and health-complexes worldwide.

Many people believe that meditation inspires a quieted mind, the clarity of their Higher Selves, and feeling more attuned with their spiritual selves as well as reaping physical and mental benefits.

Spotlight Reader of the Week – Chrisalis

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This Week’s Featured Reader is Chrisalis. She is an international psychic with an extensive client base and also write articles and horoscopes for several psychic sites.

Her readings usually focus on the present and immediate future but also look at the past to see where the problems you are facing right now have originated. This can help you in finding your best way forward as it can show you how to change patterns in relationships and take control again.

Sometimes you may feel confused and not sure of your way forward. To help ground yourself before speaking with her you may wish to ask yourself the following questions. What is going on for me at the moment? What is it that I need or want? How do I make it happen? She feels it is good to have a focal point for yourself and where you are “at” after all this reading is for you even if it involves another person.

Chrisalis is open and friendly. She does not offer spell work. She believes we all create our own luck and we all have the power to choose our own destiny. Her readings follow what is in the confines of your own destiny but you have the ultimate decision in what you do with my advice.

Tapping into Your Psychic Potential

Psychic Potential

I believe that we are all born with psychic potential, although it comes more naturally for some of us than for others. Some of us resist it and place more emphasis on the outer rational world, while some of us may be so drawn to it that we begin developing it from an early again, without even realizing we’re doing it.

Believe it or not, I wasn’t born with pink hair. I was born with a full head of tick, black hair aside from a single long, curly, wiry white hair that fell out a few weeks later. My mother always told me that it was probably a remnant from a past life and that it meant that I was an ‘old soul’.

Back then, I had no idea what an ‘old soul’ was, nor did I realize in any capacity that most other families don’t believe in past lives (or even psychic abilities) the way that my family does. But that acceptance helped me explore my own gifts from an early age.