This week’s question comes from a client who’s in a long term relationship with a man she loves and to whom she is now engaged. A wedding date hasn’t been set because she’s feeling ambivalent.

She says he’s a good man — loving, kind, successful, with a large family who considers her one of their own.

They’re both established in their careers and financially secure, and he wants to get married and start a family of their own.

So what’s the problem? She’s worried that the passion has dwindled in their 5-year relationship and is terrified of making a mistake.

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