I have a confession to make here: even though I have been doing these readings for many years, I went through a couple of bouts of being skeptical myself.
While I know that may seem strange for someone like me to say, but it’s the truth. There were times when I didn’t want to do this work because I was afraid of saying the wrong thing and hurting people.
Other times, I couldn’t help but wonder if what I was putting in my readings were actually just my own thoughts of how I wanted things to be for the person getting the reading. This has come to mind most often when I was doing readings for friends and family.
When I was very young, I heard voices, saw things I didn’t understand and just seem to know things without any idea of why I knew them.
Lucky for me I had a Gram that was able to explain it all to me because the same things happened with her. While she embraced it, I wanted nothing to do with any of it because it scared me.
She tried to impress on me how I could do as she did and use this ability to help people. Nope, no way, I wasn’t going to do it, let someone else help them. At first I thought I was going crazy, but after some time realized it was just part of who I was but still I wasn’t going to just accept this happening to me.
Some years later, I finally decided it wasn’t going away so I might just as well learn how to control it and make the best of the situation.
After several years of actively doing readings, I began to wonder if what I was telling my clients was something I was really seeing or was it just what I thought they might need. In other words, my own wishes or thoughts for them.
A friend who also read Tarot and we decided to read for each other, write it down and then have readings done. The first appointment we had was cancelled due to a family emergency by the reader, we went to another place and I felt uncomfortable, so we looked further.
On a whim, we stopped at a book store that offered readings. I was impressed at how accurate her reading was, but was taken aback when she told me she knew I read Tarot and told me she gave classes if I would like to attend. I thought she might say this to all her clients to get people to attend her class, however, she never mentioned it to my friend. I decided to take the classes and was delighted at the second class when the teacher asked me to give her a reading.
This was the affirmation I needed to realize it wasn’t my own thoughts coming through but I was really able to give my own clients a clear and accurate readings.
I often have people tell me they are skeptical because they are afraid of what the reader might tell them. No one wants to hear they will have a bad accident, illness or worse. I can’t say I blame them, that would be hard to hear.
While an ethical reader may see these types of things in your reading, they would never blurt it out, but might instead tell you to postpone a trip or have a doctor give you a good physical. We would all like to only hear good things, but that’s not the reality which we call life. From time to time we might have to give you news that isn’t what you want to hear, but if it’s what we are getting then it is probably what you needed to hear.
Many times clients have told me they were unsure of getting a reading because they felt the person giving the reading may have looked up their information, or ask questions to get information they would then turn into a reading.
Ethical readers will never use these tactics on their clients. My clients often come to me through the internet, but I also do face to face readings. I’ve never researched them before the reading, and the only question I, and ethical readers will ask is your first name and date of birth if we are doing a phone or internet reading. This allows us to better hone in on your energy to give you a more accurate readings.
Yes, we know there are a lot of fakes out there causing clients to be wary of getting a reading. We try to educate clients on how to avoid them, but it does still happen. If you have been to one of those types, I fully understand why you would be skeptical of having other readings done.
For myself, I am not in the business to bilk clients or give them fairy tale readings. That isn’t good for my clients nor is it good for my business.
Still skeptical, I’d be glad to answer any questions you have about how I do readings. Once you’ve made an appointment, made the payment and we start the reading, I will do whatever is necessary to make you feel as comfortable as possible during your reading.
With that all being said, why not give it a try. Stop by, make an appointment and let’s get started.
In most cases I’ll get right back to you and it will never take more than 24 hours.
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