This is the third part in a 12-part series called “The Invisible Man.”
This series came about as a result of a client who was struggling with a breakup and seeking questions about the demise of her relationship.
To Recap: The client whom we will call “Annie” was stuck at the cross-roads for many years regarding this breakup, which she never saw coming…
Annie is a long time client who she asked me to go into detail about a man (whom we’ll call “James Bond”) that she was engaged to in the past.
Annie thought she knew James Bond inside and out, but when the relationship ended, unexpectedly, without closure, she realized she did not know him as good as she thought she did!
The Invisible Man: Part 2 of 12
This week, the 12-part series called “The Invisible Man” continues.
This series came about as a result of a client who was struggling with a breakup and seeking questions about the demise of her relationship.
To Recap: The client whom we will call “Annie” was stuck at the cross-roads for many years regarding this breakup, which she never saw coming…
Annie is a long time client of mine, and she asked me to go into detail about a man she was engaged to in the past.
We will call this man James Bond…
Annie thought she knew James Bond inside and out, but when the relationship ended, unexpectedly, without closure, she realized she did not know him as good as she thought she did!
Dating Apocalypse? Finding Love with Online Dating
Earlier this month, the popular dating app Tinder had an epic, thirty post Twitter meltdown in response to a critical Vanity Fair article decrying today’s millennial “hook-up” culture (and apps like Tinder) as responsible for a kind of dating apocalypse.
Those critical of online and mobile dating technology contend that easily accessible sex has replaced human relating and posed a daunting barrier to finding love. They say that with so many opportunities for easily obtainable hook-ups or sex, men (and women) have little impetus or time to seek out serious relationships. Others say that online dating is just not a place where a serious, soulful relationship can be found.
It’s true that online dating can be a pool fraught with creeps and guys who send crude two word questions, and just about everyone knows a funny (or horrible) online dating story. One of the most popular refrains I hear from app weary clients is, “I’m just so over online dating. There’s no good guys!” But does this mean that it’s impossible to find a partner online?
The Invisible Man: Part 1 of 12
This week, we begin a 12-part series called “The Invisible Man.”
This series came about as a result of a client who was struggling with a breakup and seeking questions about the demise of her relationship.
The client whom we will call “Annie” was stuck at the cross-roads for many years regarding this breakup, which she never saw coming…
Annie is a long time client of mine, and she asked me to go into detail about a man she was engaged to in the past.
We will call this man James Bond…
Annie thought she knew James Bond inside and out, but when the relationship ended, unexpectedly, without closure, she realized she did not know him as good as she thought she did!
Venus Retrograde: Murphy Might Be Hanging Around…
Venus retrograde is here again… Murphy might be hanging around, so be careful with the decisions you make regarding personal and professional relationships, but also the decisions you’ll make spending your hard earned money!
Retrograde motion refers to a planet that appears to be moving backward as seen from the Earth. Symbolically, it signifies “unfinished business” or the “do-over” and as the opposite of direct motion, it allows something to be done over again.
Venus turns retrograde every eighteen months. During this time you might be attracted to someone or something you really want; however, you might run into a restriction that won’t let you achieve what you desire.
Soulmate vs Lifemate part 2 (transcribed group session with Malia)
The following is the transcribed version of a recorded Empath Group session with Malia via www.Empath-Malia.com. Soulmate vs Lifemate: What is a soulmate and what is a lifemate?
Introduction to soulmate vs lifemate conversation:
For the sake of clarity, a reading/session with me (Malia) is an interpretation of visual (clairvoyant) and audio (clairaudient) information, along with physically felt sensations (empathic and clairsentient) information. There are times you hear me say “they are saying.” There are times I am describing what I am seeing. Also, there are times I am feeling way through a question. I do try to make it clear how the information comes through, but it is not always as easy as it might seem to switch gears and stop tuning in so that I might tell you. As well, there are times I am interpreting multiple “frequencies” (you might compare this experience to having a conversation with multiple guides and then relaying that information to you, the audience). Thank you for your presence in this experience with me 🙂
Why Won’t He Change?
This is a question I get asked on an almost daily basis, particularly from clients who are unhappy with the lack of affection, emotional expression or reassurance that they’re getting from their relationship partners.
But maybe a better question would be “why did he change in the first place?”
In most cases, the relationship started out on a good note, with the love interest pursuing ardently and the client expressing no doubts or concerns about his level of interest. And then over time, something changed. Or more specifically he changed.
Of course when that happens, the natural response is to try to figure out what happened and what you can do to change him back. Especially if the man you fell in love with in the first place seemed to be a lot more like Prince Charming than the toad you’re stuck with now.
Does He Want to Break Up?
Does He Want to Break Up? Does She want out?
In the Part One article last week, we explored some of the signals that a person wants to be in a relationship with you. In this article, Part Two, we’ll take a look at the signs and signals that a partner wants to end a relationship.
As in the previous article, there’s no cookie-cutter formula that will show you the complexities of each personality and situation but there are a few energetic signatures of fear and withdrawal to look out for in a person who wants to leave a relationship but is afraid to talk about it directly.
Sometimes one or both people wanting out doesn’t really mean a permanent end to the relationship; it can be a crisis signal that there is a serious issue within the relationship that is not being communicated effectively and there can be an opportunity to move forward. However, these signals often mean that an ending is near. It’s not possible to change what isn’t working in a relationship if one partner is unwilling or unable.
Here are the signs that the two of you are headed for a break even if they insist that things are fine, or don’t want to talk about the relationship:
Does He Want a Relationship?
A few years ago I started hearing a new kind of jargon from people seeking romantic guidance, “What are his / her intentions?”
When I first started hearing it, it seemed like a weird question. After all, relationships are organic, flowing and dynamic and people rarely have fixed “intentions,” exact blueprints or robotic instructions of what they want and how they wish to proceed. Nope. Most people (just like you) are trying to understand another person, decide how they fit in their lives and protect their heart from hurt in the process.
I quickly tuned into the fact that what people really wanted to know was whether or not the person they were seeing was interested the same kind of relationship they were. Does he want a relationship? Is she interested in me the same way I am? And while this might have been a more obvious process a few decades ago (don’t people talk openly anymore?) modern dating has made figuring out how another person feels a more complicated and confusing process as dating (and social technology and social media) changes the relationship landscape.
The Astrology of Divorce and Break Ups
Can astrology predict when a marriage or relationship may go sour or experience difficulty? Can an astrologer foresee a divorce?
For this question, I have to say in most cases yes. The reason is that everyone goes through cycles.
Transits and progressions to one’s chart bring that planet’s energy to the chart. This can have an impact on our experiences during that period of time.
Another thing to consider is the individual horoscopes as well as the synastry and composite charts between the two people being analyzed for potential divorce or break up.
Soulmate vs Lifemate (transcribed group session with Malia)
The following is the transcribed version of a recorded Empath Group session with Malia via www.Empath-Malia.com. Soulmate vs Lifemate: What is a soulmate and what is a lifemate?
Introduction to soulmate vs lifemate conversation:
For the sake of clarity, a reading/session with me (Malia) is an interpretation of visual (clairvoyant) and audio (clairaudient) information, along with physically felt sensations (empathic and clairsentient) information. There are times you hear me say “they are saying.” There are times I am describing what I am seeing. Also, there are times I am feeling way through a question. I do try to make it clear how the information comes through, but it is not always as easy as it might seem to switch gears and stop tuning in so that I might tell you. As well, there are times I am interpreting multiple “frequencies” (you might compare this experience to having a conversation with multiple guides and then relaying that information to you, the audience). Thank you for your presence in this experience with me 🙂
Where Can I Meet New People? How Can I Find My Soul Mate?
After years of doing readings for clients, a common theme that arises is: Where do I meet new people? Where is my soul mate?
There are several ways to think about this question. I believe that there is a balance that must be achieved. It’s a balance of both meeting the Universe halfway by doing your part and having faith that the Universe will make that way.
This means you do not need to know the ‘how’ of things: you just need to trust that there the outcome you create will be for your best and highest good.