Halloween and Sugar Skulls; Celebration of Life and Family

Happy Halloween! Lately, I’ve noticed a lot of Mexican skeletons and sugar skulls appearing alongside traditional Halloween decorations.  These fun, whimsical figures are popping up everywhere, so I wanted to write more about them and how they can help connect us to the celebration of life, death and our loved ones.

In Mexican and Latin communities throughout the world, “Dia de los Muertos”   (Day of the Dead)  is observed on November 1st and 2nd  in festivities to  honour, commune with, pray for,  and celebrate deceased loved ones as they visit the physical world in spirit on these special days.    Related to the Catholic holidays of All Souls Day and All Saints Day, these celebrations have been tied to societies in pre-Hispanic  and ancient Mexico as well.

Day of the Dead1Between October 30th and November 1st, it is believed that the souls of children visit first and in many areas November 1st is typically “Día de los Angelitos”  (Day of the Little Angels)  the day of celebrating departed children, and November 2nd for the adults.

This festival time is planned throughout the year and is much anticipated with families beginning preparations and making special foods and decorations well in advance.  On October 30th or 31st  preparations begin with home altars that are decorated with special brightly coloured artwork, special objects, toys, candles and foods called “ofrendas” (offerings) which are designed to delight and attract visiting spirits.

In some communities, actual grave sites  are cleaned and painted and festooned with beautiful arches of flowers and thousands of  candles as well as all the offerings. This is an amazing site to behold on festival nights with bands of music and families streaming in to celebrate.

day of the dead2The ofredas  and objects all have specific significance. Beautiful Mexican marigolds called “Flor de Muerto” (Flower of the Dead)  are placed in elaborate arrangements as well as painted and created out of tissue paper – their scent, along with burning copal incense, is said to draw spirits near.  Photographs of loved ones and Saints appear along with objects the departed loved in life stand next to beautiful trays of candies, fruits, vegetables and a special treats.

One such treat is the sweet, egg bread  called “Pan de Muerto” (bread of the dead)  which is made into special shapes like people, animals, crosses,  and other shapes.  The breads may be  plain or covered with special seeds.

Children spirits have special mini-Pan de Muerto and tiny plates and cups.  A loved one’s favourite  meal (usually Tamales or something elaborate to make or usually reserved for special occasions) is also on display along with traditional liquors and beverages such as mescal, tequila, and atole, an ancient thick corn beverage. Soda pop and beers are often displayed as well as any special treats or candies that a loved one especially liked.

Traditional candies are pumpkin candies and chocolates but Pop-Rocks, chewing gum, and modern candies are sometimes set out too (Sometimes you might even see chewing tobacco or cigarettes!)   The most famous treat, of course, are the elaborately decorated and colourful sugar skulls called “calaveras de azúcar”  that come in many shapes and sizes – often bearing the name of a loved one.

They’re made in a similar way as sugar-Easter eggs that most people are familiar with. The spirits are said to consume the “essence” of the foods  so loved ones still on Earth may eat them or give them out later.  Objects such as games or toys are placed for children and for adults, special mementos and photographs are displayed.


Music is played and special poems (often humorous ) about the deceased person are read and beautiful works of art are often created.

One influential artist named José Guadalupe Posada created the modern iconography closely associated with the festivities with the etching  he created shortly before his death in 1913, “La Calavera Catrina” (The Elegant Skull) featuring a skeleton wearing a floral hat.

diadelosmuertosDancing skeletons, skeleton mariachi bands and floral skulls are now popular motifs for artwork and skulls with flowers are an icon for the Day of the Dead celebrations.

While the Day of the Dead may look like “Mexican Halloween”  to some,  with skulls and candles and candy, the holiday isn’t supposed to be just silly fun nor is it intended to be spooky.

Death is presented in the celebration as a certainty of life. In our American/Western culture, death is seen as something to avoid and the topic of our impending mortality is avoided at all costs, but in the Day of the Dead, death is embraced.

Prayers are read and told and loved ones swap stories and share funny or touching anecdotes about the loved ones who have passed on so that future generations and all members of a family can know more about who the loved ones were in life and to celebrate the gift of life.

In this way death is looked at as a part of natural life and a sense of continuity and bonding comes from sharing stories about the past. This story telling and connecting to loved ones in ritual is not unique just to Mexico – many countries the world over celebrate the deceased and cultures in Africa and Asia have similar celebrations to the Day of the Dead.

As you decorate your home, make sugar skulls, or get the little ones dressed up as monsters or princesses, remember the traditions of Halloween and Day of the Dead are those which symbolize something that is not evil, scary, or occult but rather the basic and fundamental part of life;  the love and connection to our family expressed in the joyous days of our lives, and in the remembrance and celebration of all of life’s cycles of birth and death.

©  2015 Willow Brilliance in Sight/Psychic Scoop
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