Empathic Paralysis? Set Yourself Free!

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Hello 🙂  My name is Malia.  I am a natural empath, intuitive, practitioner of energy healing. Although there are times it seems more accurate to say I am an interpreter of vibration, feeling, and color.

If you are an empath, you feel deeply, and that way of being can easily take over your life experience if you are not consistently grounding and “staying in your own lane.”  With the reminders around us of intensely traumatic events, you may be feeling it’s impossible to stay balanced, feeling like just the news itself traumatizes you.

Hey Empaths! Are You Grounded?

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Hello 🙂  My name is Malia.  I am a natural empath, intuitive, practitioner of energy healing. Although there are times it seems more accurate to say I am an interpreter of vibration, feeling and color.

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Grounded… grounding…words we hear thrown around a lot, and words that come up nearly every time I read for another empath. There’s good reason for that, but first, let’s explore what it means to be grounded.

From the Macmillan Dictionary: to be grounded is to be confident and sensible, because you like yourself and you know what is important in life.  Synonyms include realistic, practical, based on evidence or good reasons.

The Color of Feeling (Aura)

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Hello 🙂  My name is Malia.  I am a natural empath, intuitive, psychic and practitioner of energy healing. Although, there are times it seems more accurate to say I am an interpreter of vibration, feeling and color.

When a client calls me, the first thing I turn my attention to is typically color, specifically aura (the field of energy emanating from and returning to a person) color and what I am perceiving around the person and those they are asking about.

I will often mention the colors and what they mean, how these colors feel to me.  I also see the aura, not the physical body, when I read a person.

The following is meant to be a simple guide/explanation of the colors I usually explore through my work, how they feel to me.

These definitions are not meant to correlate or compete with any other explanation of aura color and meaning; however, I have found my experience to be similar to that of Edgar Cayce, as described in the book “Auras and Colors” by Kevin J Todeschi and Carol Ann Liaros.

How to Find Love If You Hate to Date

Our culture has a really strange relationship with dating.  We love it to seek dates, buy online dating subscriptions and figure out every way in the world to get more dates by improving our appearance and doing inner work… but honestly?  We also mistrust it and dread it.

Most people hate to date because they’re actually afraid of getting hurt, of meeting a dangerous person, and of being disappointed.

But what if all that fear was creating a blind spot? Do dates feel weird or uncomfortable? Do you want to avoid losers, time-wasters and creeps?

Why We Hate to Date

Each time we have a ‘bad’ date we feel like saying, “I hate dating, I hate this process… it feels like an unending punishment… I just want to find true love!” But what if those very thoughts were actually helping to create a treadmill that we keep getting on?

Finding Your Soulmate — a Blessing in Disguise

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When it comes to the subject of Soulmates, there is a lot of misinformation being passed around. Dating sites use the term in a way that leads us to think that if we just find this one special person, we will get our “happily ever after.”

Many people think that a Soulmate is ONE person in the world that you are destined to meet, and that your happiness depends upon finding this person.

There are elements of truth in both of these views. But its very far from being that simple.

Soul Connections are about growth. The Universe put us here to grow, learn and evolve. To reach transcendence. To find wisdom. To become the very best version
of ourselves.

It’s a bit like school. You may not enjoy the learning process, but in order to progress through life and be successful you need an education.

What You Never Learned About Boundaries

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Setting boundaries can be the most important thing you ever harness to transform your relationships and life … especially when it comes to dating and relationships.   True, balanced boundaries are often misunderstood;  they’re not about building an impenetrable wall of barbed wire,  but about having positive, open energy that keeps life flowing.

Imagine how an ocean flows and thrives in its space and boundaries,  but a stagnant rain puddle that doesn’t receive new energy is always evaporating, having increasingly poor boundaries and edges.  If you were a fish, which would you prefer to live in?  In the ocean you can define your turf, swim and explore and have the resources you need -but in a puddle you don’t have that luxury, you’re always trying hard, gasping for what you need and feverishly trying to stay protected as the puddle shrinks.

Setting Boundaries, Necessary In Both Personal And Business Life

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Setting boundaries is necessary in both personal and business relationships. It can be hard to set boundaries but if you don’t, after a while it can take a toll on your own personal happiness.

How many times have you heard someone say they feel as though they are being taken for granted?

This may be a problem you have in your own life. It happens to many people in both their personal and business lives, but there is a solution and you can begin to turn it around by setting boundaries.

This has always been very hard for me to do myself, and the root of it for me is because I don’t like telling people no. While that’s great for those that know this about me, it really has caused me a lot of stress in both the personal and business areas of my life. I was able to make many changes by setting boundaries in my business practices, but am still a work in progress on setting boundaries in my personal life.